So Ive just been reported for spamming atc (my first report at grade 5 that sent me back to grade 2 for a week, which really bummed me out, but what ever : / ) and i fully admit as when i tuned into one approach freq and the controller was silent and every plane kept checking (so did I) and with no response for anyone. So I then contacted the other approach freq and asked for an approach for an ILS and he sent me back to the silent controller. Once I contacted the first guy and asked for an approach again I got reported. I was just piercing the flow of traffic and I couldnt get any instructions. I was getting nervous so i just quit the flight.
So apart from diverting what would the correct action be in this situation?