In 2020 I was on a flight from Los Angeles to Orlando on United. Prior to the flight I had paid around 30$ for a window seat. Usually they cost about 16$ but because it was towards the front of the aircraft it was a bit higher. I usually always pay for a window seat so I don’t wind up in a middle seat or isle seat. Everything was normal, I got into my seat, my parents and sister were behind me and we were good to go… well I thought so at least. Boarding was almost done and this mother and her daughter sit next to me with the daughter in the middle and the mom in the isle. The mother asked me politely if her daughter and I could switch seats as it makes her less anxious. That’s understandable but at the same time I don’t think it would lower her anxiety. I think it would’ve been better if she stayed in the middle or even in the isle. I told the mom politely no and explaining I paid for the seat and I wasn’t going to let someone else have it. Like I said, I was very polite and at first the mom seemed understanding. That didn’t last long. She started getting mad that I wouldn’t give a seat to a child and that I should because I’m a guy. My parents behind me didn’t say anything because they wanted to see how I would deal with it. (I also have bad anxiety and tend to not be the greatest at interacting with people. This incident made me better at it though!) The mom started to yell saying how it was unfair that I got to sit there and wouldn’t let her daughter. Eventually everyone was staring at me and finally one of the FA’s came by. He explained the same thing to her as I did. “He paid for the seat so it is his. If you wanted a window you should’ve paid for it.” She started getting really mad and upset and the FA told her that he could move her to the back. So he did. She walked away all cocky and my parents were laughing as well as the rest of the passengers. I got the whole row to myself for the rest of the flight and the mother and daughter were in the back. The daughter got the window seat she wanted and well… she freaked out and started crying. I feel bad for whoever was on the isle seat next to them. Anyways there’s my story!
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