Just addressing something I have seen,
Lately lots of people have been including instructions to mods in their posts. Examples:
‘Please close if duplicate’
This is not a feature request, so keep it here’
And many others I have seen.
The mods know what they are doing. Let them do the job, by not putting any of these sorts of messages. If you make a mistake, your post will be moved or closed, and the world keeps turning. Feel free to ask them for an explanation, they will happily explain to you. If they make a mistake, then you can help them along.