Please don’t spawn a few miles from a focus airport, and expect to be vectored to that focus airport! Especially when it’s busy. There are probably people in the pattern that have been flying for hours. I’m not going to push them around to make room for you. If you tried that (with me anyway), I’m going to tell you the airport is full and vector you away!
My suggestion, find an airport at least 50mi away. That will give me time to fit you in without disrupting everyone else.