Yes, that’s normal.
Remedy? You gotta fall in love with the turbulence first.
I could tell you my story. Hope it helps…
(1) As a pilot, repeat to yourself that fear is good. It’s what will keep you safe. Knowing no fears will get you and others in potential danger. But what about as a passenger…?
(2) I remember when I was 7 my heart dropped and almost cried seeing from the window how the wings were about to fall off the plane. Although at the time I wanted to be an aeronautical engineer. I even took flight lessons and did some cool “aerobatics” (because my instructor was a crazy cowboy) but it never dropped some aspects of my fears of flying.
Now after several years in IF and appreciating piloting more than ever, I don’t get that much nervous anymore flying as a passenger IRL. The accidental trick? Appreciating wing flexes!
Saw a video where they were testing the wings on a plane bending it forcefully with cranes to almost 90 degrees! That just soothes me calm. So that’s the case, it must do that, its what it’s for! Been addicted to lots of extreme wing flexes afterwards, like Madeira landings, this 777 has the tips of its wings practically over its fuselage!
Now, whenever I travel I must have the window seat overlooking the wings and would be very disappointed if we don’t get any “fun” (a.k.a turbulences) during the ride. I saw clouds coming up and I go “Yippeee!”, just gotta respect the engineering. When the turbulence is non-stop, like going through a full stormy flight, I even got bored at some point and fell asleep.
(3) Another thing, a bad habit of mine: binge watching air crash cockpit recordings before any flights >sigh< bad idea! But having been watching aircraft disaster shows on cable made me realize that after any incidents, they’d change how the system works. For example: Did you know that flight instruments come in threes? Made by three different companies for fail safe measures.
So by now they’ve thought of everything and its up to the pilot to fly you in a safe, professional and skillful manner - this is why I only fly with reputable companies and avoid notorious dodgy ones.
For example:
A captain pilot friend of mine told me in his previous airline company (where I knew for a fact they’re notoriously cowboys - fun to watch sometimes in FR24) his mates took amphetamines to keep up with the schedule - I will never take dodgy airlines in my life as a passenger - except if they let me fly it myself lol.
So in short: Appreciate and love seeing the technology in action and know for a fact that for everything else by now they’ve thought of everything - it will be up to the human pilots to take great pride, respect, knowledge and care flying it, which is what you’ll get from airlines with a good track record!
(4) But perhaps, these figures with real authority on the subject could tell you themselves!
This explanation from Mentourpilot helps a lot!
https://youtu.be/EuLURmITq_E
and here's a word of assurance from Capt Sully regarding fear of turbulences
https://youtu.be/mHq18y7Vlw4
and here are common reasons of fear flying as a cargo pilot, but don't fear anything as a passenger pilot!
https://youtu.be/Ry4UsPw0rf4
Okay. Now’s your turn to give me any logical advice you have: I’m your opposite, I completely fear low level flights, particularly the boarding and that feeling from those powerful roaring take-offs 🤦♂️ (even seeing that airfoil vapor from the window, altough liking it, but still makes me realize the momentum)
Btw, thanks for reading and I hope you’ll achieve your dream as a pilot, cheers!